Monday, February 25, 2008

your relationship

are you in a relationship?
if you er,have you ever ask yourself ..how would i feel if i leave this relationship,how would i feel if i step out of this relationship...can i really do without this person at this moment....
have you asked yourself?
life is complicated and this can bring about confusion that is if you really wanna ask yourself
if you dont know,take a short break in your relationship and see if you guys would permanently break up or even come back to love each other more..if you er willing,then you wld learn lessons ,,,,,bitter and sweet!
and er! dont worry,it worths it ..dont leave your question unanwered.....it saves ur time man in order to move on for the next level and to know whether you are standing in the right part!!

7 comments:

SCOMISS said...

lol..i have been single for 3 yrs....so i know i can do without any man..

thanks for checking out ma blog

:)

Anonymous said...

lollllllllllllllllllllll
^This is interesting!!

My birthday is on the 15th of April..

Erm...I can do without my man sha...or maybe na just for mouth. Hehe

Cyclone said...

I am not sure pushing a soul mate away proves your love. Sometimes love and affection can be very instinctive and unbridled. The acid test is whether you can make sense of it and give your moments together meaning.

Find things to talk about, do together and keep each other thinking of what the other would like. Getting beyond the wistful thoughts of good looks, kind words or general all round happiness. Get to the heart of why you should be together rather than why you are together.

jaynnet said...

Cyclone sometimes no matter how loving you could be in a relationship dont you agree that sometimes a gap is needed or space ..its just that you dont have to fix the space or control but only let it come naturally thats if it has to

Cyclone said...

I don't agree. IF you both have your own lives then you already have the breaks built in. A relationship is about throwing yourselves together, bouncing off each other and finding a balance.

You'll never find the balance in one go so what are you walking away from. Walking hand in hand means being together yet still being two distinct vibrant individuals.

Look for the thread not the cracks.

jaynnet said...

of course breaks are already built in didnt you see what I said about the word naturally..we er pratically saying the same thing....or may be I should put it this way ..................
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......ladies and gentlemen in relationships fasten your seat belt because this journey is going to be................
.....ekm ekm...........Just expect the in built space of this life and prepared for it so that you dont miss ur loved one too much cos it wld definately come even if Its 2secs

jaynnet said...

and overlook the spelling errors pls